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    Retrograde Ejaculation

    A rarer variety of ejaculatory problem that causes retrograde ejaculation, where the sperm squirt backwards into the bladder, rather than outwards. Read more →

    i am 22 and i can always get an erection and maintain it but i have never been able to ejaculate during sex, and when i masturbate i have to stretch my legs from start to finish to be able to ejaculate is there anything i can do about this?





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    I am 22. I have exactly the same problem. I went to the doctors yesterday and she advised me that the problem may be anxiety. I was recommended to go to a counselling session with my girlfriend. I am slightly dubious but I will try anything to get it to work.

    hi, i'm able to ejaculate then if i have any sexual contact again upto 12 hours after i struggle to ejaculate and in most cases not able to at all. anybody able to help with this one?





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    hi, i am 20. after i ejaculate, i feel cramp on my penis if i got an erection again. is it normal? (usually i take about 10min to ejaculate). thx.





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    Hi, I'm a 18 male and when I'm having sexual intercourse with my girlfriend I cannot ejaculate but when I masterbate I can ejaculate easily. Please help!





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    This is just down to nerves. Ive had the same issue with partners in the past - the more you focus on it, the bigger it seems. It'll happen. Just take the extra time to enjoy it

    Hi there i have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years but he has never been able to ejaculate when we have sex. He says he can feel it get to the tip then it just stops.He is getting very frustrated.Yet he can ejaculate when he masturbates but never while he is with me. He is 38. What could this be ? many thanks.





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    Im 16 and I Usually ejaculate about 6 times a day wen i ejaculate the 5th time if i get an erection after i feel a sharp pain throughout my penis and it hurts is this normal ?





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    you need to stop mastberbating 6 times a day do it once

    Hi Im 22 and cant ejaculate when im masturbating or having sex i only ejaculate when im asleep with wet dreams whats wrong with me?





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    I too have a similar problem, I am unable to ejaculate during sex and have tried many things such as having sex for longer and not masturbating for prolonged periods of time before sex. This is yet to assist in the matter as I can only ejaculate when I masturbate. Any suggestions?

    i have been with my partner for 7 years and only ajaculated a few times want to try and find out what i can do about it

    I get really bad flatulence after I ejaculate. I used to think that it was just my diet and tried cutting out different foods, but now I've realised that it just gets really bad after I ejaculate. Is there anything I can do?





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    I am a 28 year old man. I have had yellow color ejaculate for as long as I can remember. The only time it doesn't have a more yellowish tint is when I do not ejaculate for a few days.





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    I am 17 and my penis is 6 inch soft and about 9inch erect. I keep getting erections even though I'm not masturbating and I ejaculate even I'm not doing anything. But when it comes to having sex I cant ejaculate when I'm at my climax. It's really embarrassing and I need advice





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    Hi when i have sex i cant ejaculate. The first time i had sex i did ejaculate but once i had sex again i cant seem to ejaculate. so i masterbated and i ejaculated so i am confused why i dont ejaculate during sex. What could this be??





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    Hi. My boyfriend has this problem. He can ejaculate by masturbating but has NEVER by intercourse, he is 26 yrs old and loosing his erection when he feels the build up to ejaculate but he cant. It's very frustrating for us as a couple. If you hear of anything can you let me know? He is very healthy doesn't smoke or drink. He spent 5 years without any intercourse but it couldn't be this because he never came during sex before the 5 year gap. Thanks. Hope you find out what you are looking for.

    hey i need help it feels like i have ejaculate but i dont and im 13 i should me souldent i oh and another thing when im erect im 5cm but when im flacid im 3cm and im a little confused iv got a realy small penis and it annoyes me I WANT TO CU...nevermind. lol thanks its just so hard for me to figure this out.

    I am 61 and have had some issues with my semen being clear and also when ejaculation starts it takes a while for the ejaculate to appear. I am not sure I should see a urologist. Also when I ejaculate it seems to take longer for ejaculate to appear. Timing seems to be off... Suggestions?





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    im 13 years old and erect my penis is just under 4.5 inches also when I ejaculate I start to ejaculate seamen but as I go I just urinate. why is it so small and whats the ejaculate problem please help





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    From your description, I suspect that you aren't yet ejaculating semen. It sounds like to me that you haven't quite reached that point, but are getting very close. I wonder if you have experienced orgasm (which can be different from ejaculation). I suspect that it won't be long before you experience your first orgasm and will ejaculate semen and will know the difference between this experience and urinating.

    yeah, its actually pre-ejaculate, it will soon have proper ejaculate, which is thicker and more opaque, after having pre-ejaculate.

    i am 27 years old and its all started when i first learn to ejaculate.. i ejaculate everyday on my past 9 years or above ,, about 2 times a day i ejaculate, but then when i was about to turn 20 my semen looks weird. it s color turn into yellowish, then after that when i turn 25 i had no pleassure thing on my self when i ejaculate,, its so embarrassing.. like i feel so stress when my semen will comes out.. and my lower back gets pain when i do it.. i get so nervous about making babies now ,, what if i can't make one.. please giv me some of your answer..





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    My Boyfriend can manage to get an erection but is unable to ejaculate through sexual intercourse. He can ejaculate by hand. He also has a very low sex drive which I think maybe caused by his inability to ejaculate with sex. He often loses an erection during sex! Please help!





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    Hi Samantha, Firstly I'm sorry to hear about your boyfriends unfortunate condition. However do not despair, there is light at the end of the tunnel. I suffered a similar fate several years ago. I was told it was the medication I was on, it was just a slight hiccup it will sort itself out soon enough. Yeh right....not! I kept on at my GP but to no avail. I was under a consultant at my nearby hospital for something unconnected and mentioned my problem to him. He arranged some tests and gave me a rectal examination to check my prostate, all clear there. Then he arranged some blood tests and it was found that I had next to no Testosterone in my blood. Testosterone is what makes us blokes tick, the whoa look at that beauty, etc. etc. yada yada. You get the picture. It also affects our Libido and our erections and sometimes the ability to ejaculate during intercourse. Don't despair there is help. I started with Testosterone gel which I had to apply daily to my chest. It is important that it doesn't come into contact with females, for obvious reasons, it's the male hormone. To be honest it's very messy and didn't do much for me. I was then prescribed Testosterone injections. These are quite uncomfortable and have to be injected into a large muscle mass, i.e. Buttocks or thigh. Yippee I can now rise to the occasion on demand, sometimes though too much for my good lady, who now requests at least a couple of days rest in between, lol. I hope this gives you some hope and something to look forward to. Don't give up, please, and it's not your boyfriend going off you or that he doesn't fancy you any more. It's not his fault, but there is hope and help. Good luck and be good to each other.

    When I masturbate before i ejaculate semen, I ejaculate a clear substance, if i carry on I ejaculate semen, but i was just wondering is that something to be worried about or is it something which can be cured.





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    no its nothing to worry about, its commonly known as pre-ejeculation, and its very common,,,

    For some reason I can't ejaculate and on the one time I did ejaculate I had extreme pain. I did have issues with my foreskin but I've done stretching exercises and its much better but I can't ejaculate and on the one time I did I had severe pain, I've been to see a urologist for the ejaculation problem and he said there is nothing wrong with me and that the nerves in my penis could be at fault or it could be psychological, How do I go about sorting this? Thank You.





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    over the past 6 years i have noticed the way i ejaculate has changed. i can only discribe it as when i ejaculate it ouzes out instead of spirting like it used to. the consistancing has become thicker, and alot less. i sometimes experience pain in my lower abdomen when i ejaculate. ive noticed i have to urinate more frequently, even during the night now a days. sometimes i feel like my bladders full and i only urinate a little. im only 41yrs old...and this problem is causing me both embarassment and distress. does the amount of semen reduce with age...or should i be concerned. please help.





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    I am 25 when I ejaculate the sperm looks white with some oily patches on it. is it how its supposed to be? and I'm just wondering is it too bad to ejaculate everyday?





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    I'm 13 and when I try to masturbate nothing happens my penis just gets itchy from me rubbing it so much I want to be able to ejaculate because its just so frustrating and I feel like I really need to, is this normal and is there anyway I can help my self ejaculate?





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    No, don't worry, I went through the same thing, your body just needs a little more time to develop... :)

    Hi there i have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years but he has never been able to ejaculate when we have sex. He says he can feel it get to the tip then it just stops.He is getting very frustrated.Yet he can ejaculate when he masturbates but never while he is with me. He is 38. What could this be ? many thanks.





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    I can't ejaculate when I'm havin sex. Just lose all feeling but can ejaculate when masterbating. I'm very worried about this because I would like to have kids some day. Can you help me plz





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    hi, i am 20. after i ejaculate, i feel cramp on my penis if i got an erection again. is it normal? (usually i take about 10min to ejaculate). thx.





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    Probably just like muscle soreness...try and not masturbate for about 4 or 5 days...if it still hurts then...and your sure your not to rough with yourself...see your doctor ;)

    when i ejaculate my semen is white very thick and occaisionally has lumpy jelly bit in it and find it hard to ejaculate as it just will not come out





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    I'm ejaculating twice a day and now if I ejaculate it's painting and my fluid is watery and after ejaculate some urine leaks automatically and it's painful what can I do for this help me I'm 18





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    I am 13 I can ejaculate whenever but recently I was masterbating and as I was about to ejaculate a FOUL smelling yellow clumpy substance come to the tip of my penis what is it





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    I'm guessing you're uncircumcised? It's probably smegma. You need to clean under your foreskin properly.

    every time i have sex i cant ejaculate. I can only ejaculate wen masterbating And my foreskin becomes very tight when pulled back. It is becoming very fustating for me and my partner. Is there anything that could be done to help?





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    My boyfriend who is 34 years of age (as am I) cannot ejaculate during sex and never has been able to (with anyone). He can ejaculate through masturbation though... we have an excellent sex life but this is an issue when considering having children. Could this be a medical condition?





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    hi when i have sex i carnt ejaculate but only can ejaculate wen masterbating but takes a while is there sumthing wrong with me?





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