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    Erectile Dysfunction

    Any glance at your email spam filter will tell you that erectile dysfunction is big business, but this common complaint can be extremely distressing for those men who suffer with it. Read more →

    i am only 20 and even tho i love my boyfriend and am very attracted to him im finding that i have a very low sex drive..when we on the rare occasion have sex or forplay i enjoy it but i never feel in the mood to start off with even though we are very affectionate is there anything to improve my sex drive?my sex drive has always been low .. no matter what we try.





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    i have been told that zinc can increase your sex drive. don't know if it will work for you but it is surely a relatively easy treatment to try. hope things improve for you soon.

    Hi ive had Chronic urticaria for about 9 months now and since then my life has been hell. It has severely lowered the quaility of my life as i am a 16 year old who is in love with sport and it is a passion which i hope to pursue as a future. I now struggle to walk to school, sit in a warm room, or next to a radiator i have quit Football, Tennis, cycling and running and many other hobbies whihc i love. I cant go to parties or have fun at the beach on hot days with friends. This couldnt have come at a worse time, i took P.E and i couldnt take part in practical which lowered my grade and now fear not being able to take part in higher. I have seen many doctors, a few homiopaths ( think thats how you say it) and a few specialists in dermatoligy and their answer is more medication which isnt working! I beg if anyone has any advice or anything please help me I just want to get my life back on track and enjoy it to the fullest. Thanks and sorry for poor spelling.





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    I gradually lost my sex drive and all desire ending up with being sexually in the pre-puberty position. I was diagnosed as having an underactive thyroid and given testosterone 80 mg and levothyroxine 100 mg I am now on 120 mg of testosterone plus anti depressants Venlafaxine 37.5 quick release for evenings and 75 mg slow release in the morning. while I have started to regain some sex drive a long lasting erection or sex drive is rare it has improved. I now have incontinence and while my hernias have been treated I still have gall stones that so far have not caused me pain. I was checked and cleared for prostrate cancer but the incontinence is still not clearing up or improving.





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    Hi, I have excess hair all over the top of my thighs and down my stomach. It's not attractive and has really lowered my confidence. What can I do? Thanks





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    Hi, I am a 24 year old woman and I have had no sex drive and struggle to get lubricated for over 2 years. I have had full hormonal tests which have all been normal and I have a happy relationship. I have been on the pill before and the injection but have been off it for nearly a year with no improvement in sex drive. The problems came about from when I went on the injection but never improved. It's really affecting my life but I have no idea where the problem could be!?





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    In September I had the contraceptive implant fitted and ever since then my sex drive has dropped to absolutely nothing. It is causing problems in my relationship as I would like nothing more than to feel aroused and want to have sex but I don't. I am 18 and my partner is 19 and we have been together almost two years. We don't know what to do, should I have the implant removed? Is it the implant causing this change in my sex drive?





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    i always used to have a high sex drive and frequent unwanted erections. However this year everything has completely flipped, my sex drive is gone and I now struggle to get an erection most of the time - My body isn't interested even on the odd ocasion that I am. Oddly, morning erections are still strong. Im not sure what to do about this or who to speak to, as a 24 year old man I'm a little nervous talking to my friends. Any advice or help in the right direction would be great!





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    Hi, I am a 26 year old, I have been married to my husband for 4 years but been together for 9 years. We have 2 children aged 6 and 3 but for the past 5 years I have suffered with re-ocurring depression. With this my sex drive is none existant. I have took anti-depressants about 4 times ranging from 3 months to 2 years. Even thought now I am no longer on them my sex drive has not improved. Please help as my husband keeps thinking that I am neglecting him and do not care his feelings but I just cant get my head around even having sex never mind enjoying it :-(





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    Hi I'm 26 and been with my boyfreid for over 3yrs now. I have totally lost my desire for sex and it has been at least a year. Sometimes if there's a lot of oral towards me I can push myself into feeling something but it never leads to intercourse because it always painful. However I just have no desire and dread the day my boyfriend can't be patient anymore. It's really putting pressure on our relationship. I've spoken to the doctor and nurse several times but they always turn me away and say it's a relationship problem or we are not doing enough foreplay which is why they think the sex is painful. I used to have such a high sex drive and now there's nothing there. Please please help me. I can't stand it anymore. I'm 26! Low sex drive shouldn't be an issue! :(





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    Your doctor and nurse are ignorant. Look at the programme of 26th June ( a young woman had suffered painful sex for a year, was told it was psychological, of course it wasn't). I was told the same thing repeatedly all my life and I only found a cure a few years ago. I'm appalled that after all these years medics are still unaware of a vaginal condition that can be treated with hormonal cream, usually only given to menopausal women. Change your doctor, ask to see a specialist. Not only will the cream deal with the pain, as it changes your hormones it will re-activate your desire. It's worked for me - I'm 71!!!!

    hi there im 25 years old, iv never had children but ive developed these strange marks on my tummy and on my inner legs, my doctor mentioned cushons desease but since then nothing has been done. this has lowered my self esteem and confidence . iv tried bio oil e45 savlon plus more but nothing seems to reduce the marks....please help x





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    Hi I have a problem with my testicles as in I can't check them. If I try to, it makes me feel faint. I also seem to get protruding veins and sometimes get a spot on them which I have to try to squeeze. I had a testicle lowered when I was 16 and I had a cyst about 10years ago too. Also, not that I have a high sex drive, but when I sometimes masturbate, my scrotum tightens and I get a throbbing pain in my testicles. Should I be worried?





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    Hi im 19 and when me and my fiance first got together i had a real drive for sex but while i was pregnant with our son my sex drive completely disappeared. I thought this was normal but even when we did have sex and i had a drive it was really painful. My son is now 7 months and my sex drive hasnt returned. When we do have sex it is very painful and i struggle to keep moist. I get a burming feeling on my vagina and pains in my stomach when my fiance hits my cervix. Can anyone help with my situation and suggest what could be the cause?





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    i have been using heroin for the past 4 years. Before i started i had a really high sex drive. Basically i couldnt get enough. I have stoped using now and have started on methadone i only ever smoked and used about 2 to 3 bags a day. The problem is i havent got any sex drive at all which is a big problem as i have a girl freind now that i have stoped useing will my sex drive come back at all





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    Hi im 32 a mum of three. I have been with my partner for 8years. Since i had my last child 4 half years ago my sex drive has gone and its putting a strain on our relationship. My partner thinks i have a problem with him. I have tryed so many times to reasure him its not him. We also have talked about wanting another baby. But this wont happen as i have no sex drive left and im wanting the old me back. What do i do or what would help me get my sex drive back. Please help me. :o(. Thank you.





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    I have the symptoms of mood swings, low energy levels, extremely low sex drive, body fat, which no matter how much excercise I do I cannot get rid of, low drive, difficulty in concentration and decrease in muscle mass. As I also suffer from type 2 diabetes, it is difficult to get my GP to look at anything other than the diabetes as a cause of my problems. What is the best thing that I can do? I am 62, previously had good health, very driven (work wise), good sex drive, I am getting very desperate.





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    hi i had twin girls 11 months ago and our sex drive has become non existent after trying for the babies for 4 years and 2 attempts of i.v.f. i know after having children it can affect the sex drive but im never in the mood





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    hiya, i am 27 yrs old and i havent got sex drive what so ever since i had my 1st child in 2002. i have been 2 the doctors and all's they have done 4 me is give me anti depressants but i wont take them as im not depressed. is there anything what i can do 2 try and get my sex drive bk?





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    I'm 19, and in a sexual relationship as of 7 months. Quite often i have a very low libedo and my sex drive is almost zero. I very rarely masturbate and have some erectile problems with my partner as a result of the low sex drive. Any ideas on how to improve this?





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    i am 50 i have been to the doctors quite a few times over the last 2 years i keep smelling from my vagina which is embarrassing and is depressing me, i have not got a sex drive, i love my husband very much and i am scared i will loose him if i dont get my sex drive back i have tried creams, tablets, patches, hope you can help





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    Im a 29 year old mother of 2 been with my husband over 8 years and weve always had a high sex drive (having sex 3 times a day most days) since having my second child almost 3years ago my sex drive seems to have disapeared. i can achieve an orgasm occasionally but i never feel the urge for sex the way i did before. can you suggest any way of getting this back somehow?





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    I am 24 and have had practically no sex drive for about 2 years which is getting me down. Sex seems to feel like a chore these days when only a few years ago I couldn't get enough! I wish there was some kind of sex drive pill I could take!





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    I am also aged 20 and am having no sex drive at all! I 've been with my bf for nearly a year and and for a couple of months now I just don't feel turned on by sex, don't feel as aroused or have the need to want sex. I think the reason may be because I am on the depo, injection contraception, one of the side affects is the low sex drive. Could this be the same with you?

    Can i ask if anyone experiences strange feelings of fuzzy headedness and disorientation when driving?? I have been suffering since July when i was struck with Labrynthitis, i have been to ENT who diagnosed BPPV and Right Vestibular Failure, but i feel like im in wacky races when drive/travel at higher than 30 mph. SO much so that i am now scared to drive on the motorways thanks for reading





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    Hi, im a 24 yr old girl. I have been with my boyfriend 4 5 years now. My problem is that i have no sex drive. My partner an i only have sex every 3-4 months and thats because i feel too quilty not having it. I love my boyfriend and still really fancy him. I have never had a very high sex drive but this past year is so much. I would like to know if there is anything i can take because this is starting to effect our relationship. I am very active and have a healthy diet.





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    hi,i am 53 had a hysterectomy 7 years ago which started the ball rolling with lack of desire for sex, ive been through a lot since(stress) and now take prozac which has "killed" my sex drive altogether and also find it impossible to reach a climax,i feel bad for my partner and its only made worse by him having a high sex drive.ive never had these problems before, can u tell me what i can get from my doctor to improve things,many thanks





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    I'm a Police officer and have this. It is worse after a fast short drive but after a long drive I can normally control the adrenalin that makes it worse. Definately difficult to use the fiddly touch screen note pad with the stylus though. Also a real pain when restraining someone, but I have learnt to get by.





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    the tube in the penis will not have caused Peyronies. How bad is the curve? does it actually interfere with penetrative sex - if so you need referring. Regarding your low sex drive, if you're the age to have a by pass you may be the age to have a male menopause where your testosterone levels wane. Ask your GP for an early morning testosterone level check. If it's low or even low normal it can be easily treated and restore your sex drive.

    One can have a strong sex drive at any age. If you need to masturbate up to 40 times a day, your sex drive is indeed very strong. Gentle masturbation is not harmful. Do not use hard objects to achieve orgasm. Does your husband know about your masturbation and its frequency ? It is not wise to have secrets from husbands. If he knows your needs, he may have sex with you more often than once a week.

    I'm 16 and since I was 13 I've had stretch marks on my belly. It's really lowered my self-esteem, and makes me feel fat is there any way that I could get rid of them or even help them fade? Thank you





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    I don't know about sex drive unless you take hormonal injections regularly that would make your sex drive increase but apart from that you could take pill to help erect your penis but that's all that there is. Sorry I haven't been able to be of much help but that was the only thing that I could think of hormonal injections I can't really remember what it is called but you take it for a few weeks or months and then you will get more hair growth and want to have sex more. You might need to go to the toilet a lot at the beginning through.

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