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    I am worried I am 14 and on websites I read about periods or information on periods it says that you normally start your period when you have breast development and pubic hair and under arm hair. Well I am 14 and I have under arm hair full amount of pubic hair and i have breast development at currently being 32c-d and I havent started my period yet do i need to be concerned or worried that i havent stated my periods yet????? But on health I do have IBS,





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    I'm 22 and I'm lacking breast development iv had 1 baby and now expecting again I couldn't even breastfeed





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    I am 19 and still no signs of breast development and no period by I have pubic hair . Is it normal?





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    it may mean you are in the first stages of puberty. You have to remember that periods vary between everyone and also the stages in which puberty occurs is different also

    I am 16 years old and I lost my virginity last year. At first it was fine (when I say that, I mean my first sexual partner) and sex was a great thing but after my first sexual partner, I hadn't had sexual intercourse for about 6 months. When I got with a new sexual partner, things started to go down hill, and I started to experience a little pain during sex but it was enough to handle. 7 months have gone by and now I have a new boyfriend and we are in a sexual relationship and it is a nice relationship to have because I trust him but when we have sex the pain is bad an sometimes it's too much to handle, to the point where I have to stop him sometimes because it is too much. I am also experiencing some bleeding during sex which makes it annoying and embarrassing. I'm scared that either something is wrong with my body and I was wondering whether anyone suggeste anything or ha any idea of what is going on?





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    I seem to have some sort of sexual dysfunction, which is impacting on my relationship. I do not know if this is normal or atypical. I am a female aged 19 years. I am not anorgasmic. My desire for sexual activity is very inconsistent. Sometimes I have intense, persistent sexual arousal with desire for sexual contact, that does not cease after multiple orgasms. At other times, a strong aversion to sex with zero desire. These phases usually last 24-48 hours, with limited stabilization in between. This inconsistency is causing significant psychological stress, for both my partner and I. Is this indicative of a problem? What can I do to achieve a balanced libido.





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    As much as you masterbate - the first couple of times you are never really prepared for sex. I lost my virginity late in life, when I was 21, prior to that I had masterbated with toys, and my hands, etc. This is a terrible answer - but it takes a few times for women, I think for women to get comfortable with that feeling of a penis inside of them. I htink fingering yourself, and having your partner find yourself is a good start - but that feeling it takes time. At the same time - when you start having sex when you're young - you have no idea what to do, and in most cases neither does the guy you sleep with - unless they are older and experienced. It takes some time to find your fitting - and something that I didn't do and I encourage - is having sex with someone your comfortable with makes a difference in your comfort and getting more comfortable with sex. As always, practice safe sex.

    I'm 20 and I'm a DD cup size but my nipples have hardly developed. They aren't much bigger then a penny and they are still pale, my left nipple seems to be inverted but my right one isn't. Was just wondering why the development is so late?!





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    Hi im 21 now and havent really developed much from when i was 13 in only 5 feet tall and everything about me is small. i didnt even start my period untell i was 17 and only in the past year i have had regular periods. Is this normal development or should i see some about it?





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    i am 18 and my breasts and flat and i have no signs in their development.. and frm some months i have found some brownish white small lumps on my nipple and from 2 days my nipples is hurting so bad what is the problem i'm going throungh ? can you please help me ? i need your help!!





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    Is there anything you can do to enhance your breast size or breast development, such as medication or anything. Im 16 and have a very flat chest. Please help!!





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    Yea, you're doctor may be able to give you hormone tablets! I'm 15 and I have the same problem!

    cloe, are you on the hormone tablets and do they work? i dont know if they will work on me BUT I HOPE SO

    my friend is diagnosed with vaginosis e tric and gave her medication.since his her 1st and only sexual relation,she confronted her bf,but he denied and became the caused of breakup.tnow its almost 2yrs,despite of no sexual relation, she is itching down there, she told me after cleaning and removing the white color cheese like,she feel relieve and no more itching.is it possible to be a thrush? fyi,she don't have any sexual relation aftr the breajup and not sexualy active.





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    I'm 17y.o and have experienced no sexual development in my penis or testicles. I have some pubic hair, some underarm hair and very little facial hair. I have a history of being late when it comes to development, my pubic hair didn't being to grow till I was 15, same with underarm and facial. I am very woried about my penis and testicles however, it is having an effect on my self esteem as I can't (don't want) to get a girlfriend, or to even meet girls while on nights out, because I know I am not sexually ready, and couldn't bare the embaressment of having to explain the situation. Please right back





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    Any chance of an update, as I am in a similar situation, and would appreciate it if you could tell me what happened to you?

    Im 15 , When I Studyd Sexual Development and Puberty I Got Told That Between Periods It Is Normal To Get Slight Discarge In Ur Underwear I Wouldnt Know As Im On The Implant And they have stopd my periods all together! :D But When I did have them i was told it was normal. I Dont See Why People Are So Embarressd To Go To Ur Gp , Iv Been Going For Sexual Things Since I Was 12 or 13 and my gp is my mates mum! i even get my mum to make the appiontment sometimes but thats just me im very open about anything!! Anyway if you dont want ur parents to know it is against the law to tell them without your permision even if you have something!





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    my daughter is 7 and has growth of pubic hair and breast development i took her to the doctors last year and she had bloods done. they all came back fine but i have noticed further development although she has no signs of bleeding. are they any herbal or natural remedies for this as she is starting to get very self concious especaily during pe at school where there are no seperate changing areas. any advice would be greatfully recieved





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    hi my left breast is a dd and my right is a aa im 19 years old and because of this level of difference i have found my relashionship and sexual development is slower than my friends however i have found a new confidence in being different and im now doing modleing im proud to be different and although hard i find that being me is rewarding enuff X

    hi i'm 15 and i'm worried about gettin breast cancer. i do check but i think its too early as my breasts have started to grow again but i dont know what i feel is a lump or just the muscle or something to help it grow or is part of the development. it only slightly hurts when i push against it. is this ok? is this part of the development? should i still worry?





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    hi i'm soon to be 13 and i don't have my period. I have all the 'coomon signs' e.g. Breast growth, pubic hair (underarm and 'lower regions'), HEAVY vaginal discharge (recently mucos like and sticky.), i havce had my groeth sput and i get serios acne, but i am qorried as all signs of development have slowed right down and i have had no change in development for about 5 months. I s there something wrong? thanks xx





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    It's supposed to be exactly how it is! Every woman's vulva is unique, just like every person's hands or eyes are unique. People who have posted here already saying they look like a certain image above do not look exactly like the image either. Early sexual activities do not change the development of the vulva.

    While the fact that you are openly discussing your boyfriend's familiarity with your vulva at the age of 14 suggests that you have no issues with sexual intimacy, it is quite normal at your age to experience some level of dysmorphia, as your body changes and you grow accustomed to new bits, bobs and responses. I commend your boyfriend for being supportive, and suggest that you wait until your development slows down before you consider any irreversible measures.

    i am 15 going to be 16 in september, and i have under developed boobs! i wear a 36C bar my siez but like they are in a cone shape and i think that i am at the 3rd stage of breast development and im wondering if i was going to develope to stage 5 of breast development soon. i started pubity when i was 11 and all my friends seem to be fully developed. i havnt finished growing yet have i? i want to know if my boobs will develope soon, something to show off but not too big.. pleaseee give me advice! :)





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    Hi. This is awkward. I'm 18 years old, coming up to 19 in May, but my breasts seem to be that of an older ladies, maybe in her 70's. The point downwards and sag dramatically. the dark circle around my nipple (the medical term escapes me, sorry) is very large and almost completely covers the bottom of my breast. It has been the same since I started to develop breasts -(at around 12 years of age.) I have Policystic ovaries and wonder if the odd development of my breasts can be linked to that. I hate my breasts with immense passion, I wish I could cut them off and be away with the way they make me feel. Please do not reply with "give them time, they will grow-" they have not changed in 6-7 years of development and are 36DD in size. I understand they will keep growing, but I am sure they will not change in shape. I am too embarrassed to approach my doctor about this and I hope I can get an honest answer on here. Is there anything I can do about my breasts without having to chop the things off? Please, I am honestly distressed about anyone ever seeing my breasts, which I am very sure is not healthy.





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    The same thing with me, my nipples grew pointing down to the floor.I am seriously considering a breast lift in the near future.

    im 13 and have not even started best development ir period signs what should i do





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    Honey everyone is different, just because your friends have started developing breasts and started their periods doesn't mean you will too. I was a late bloomer and wasn't thinking about bras until I was 15 and my first period was when I was 16. So it's totally normal for a few percentage of girls to mature very slowly. Couldn't be due to hormonal imbalance and sometimes genetic. The only time you should be worried is if by age 16 you still don't see any changes in your body and still don't have your menstrual cycle. Then you will need to talk to a gynecologist.

    i have small penis and tests with no development of breast





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    Breast development stops at 20 so you'll probably grow out of it but for just now just stuff your bra on the other side

    Breast development stops at 20 so you'll probably grow out of it but for just now just stuff your bra on the other side

    When your breasts first start to develop, they will be a bit pointy but they will most likely become more rounder in later stages of development.

    Hi, I'm 13 and im not sure if i should be concerned about my breast development, as one of my breasts is bigger than the other. Not massivly but quite noticably. I don't know what to do. Please reply.





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    nooo youre so young, youve only just started developing. womens breasts are always different and one is generally always a teeny bit bigger. when youve finished developing you will most likely hardly notice.

    dont worry about it. speak to your mum if you havent already as your development can be genetic so she may be able to help you. Hope this helps :)

    Depending on your development you should be able to pull your foreskin back. It is very important you clean under there. If it really won't go I am afraid you might have to go see the Dr.

    I'm 33 yrs old and the fact that you're asking about whether your penis is the right size and what you should tell your current girlfriend (and there will be others), this says a lot about you and means you might not be mature enough emotionally to be having sexual intercourse. I know it seems like everyone your age is doing it, but take it from most of us guys who started sexual activity early like you are thinking of doing. Your whole personality will change and so will your relationship with her. That's why sexual intercourse is better and a lot more satisfying if your wait until you are out of puberty. If you can't be up front and honest with your girlfriend to say "I would like to wait" or for you and her to go together to the local Planned Parenthood clinic and sit with a person who could teach you about condoms and other contraceptives as well as possible STD's, other then what you have heard from your friends, that means you should wait to have sexual intercourse or any other sexual activities. We don't know each other, so I would not lie to you. I beg you from the bottom of my heart from experience, don't do it. Write me back if you would like to talk further.

    Ive had this cyst for longer than a year now and i am 17 but does this stop development in the testicles as i dont think im fully developt?





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