Conditions with symptom: 'tension'
Im 44,in my twenties I realised that my palms and feet are extremaly sensitive for cold;the condition worsened and now from October to May I have to warm up my feet with hot water bottle otherwiese I can't fall asleep for cold.This Summer I started to suffer from tension in my calves and almost everyday painful crams.Im non smoking,never drink,eating very healthy:every day a lot of raw veg and fruits,don't eat fry or processed food,intaking Omega-3 and -6 and dont have visible veins.Im a waitress,walking a lot and cycling regulary.My blood results are excellent.I stopped to wear high heels after this crams,but tension in my calves stays even if Im on holidays and not walking long.What is it and how to get rid of the crams?I Have light sweelled feet in Summer and recently realised that when Im cycling longer than 1hour my right knee hurts.
Hi me and my partner have been together for 3 years and the sex life was very active but after having our son she cant have penetrative sex as this seems extremly painful when we have tryed we have been to the doctors a few. Times but they keep saying it might be thrush or something I suspect she may have this condition and was wondering what we could do to get rid of this as there is a lot of tension between us any help is much appreciated
i'm 15 and so is my boyfriend, but when we kiss, he gets an erection and it's not that easy to cover. we're not doing anything other than kissing, and we haven't before either, but it wont stop. i suggested doing it himself to relieve sexual tension, but it hasn't worked yet. why is this happening and how can we stop it?
i have had a deep pore on my back on my right shoulder blade for years that inflames every couple of months and any discharge (that i feel comes from VERY DEEP within the muscle) as one would expect, really smells but my question also relates to terrible head/neck muscle pain /migraine i also get relating to this same muscle /shoulder /neck- for which i pay privately to have regular physio, manipulation and massage to help relive the tension. might the deep pore inflammation be causing the muscle to tighten /spasm ? i also have a permanent spot? i am not sure what it is at the base of the skull… .that gets very tender and swells in association with the muscle/neck pain my GP dismissed me when i even mentioned that the smelling deep pore was an embarrassing re occurring problem to me and that i felt anxious that it would erupt or smell when i was undergoing physio or even if i had a massage etc several massage therapists have commented on it and that too makes me anxious and embarrassed this has been going on for at least 4 years… i just feel that the inflammation / infection from the pore and the swelling on the base of my skull and the resulting pain /migraine from the muscle from my shoulder to the neck/head are linked in some way. the GP has given me diazepam to help relieve the tension that causes the pain but i wonder if the inflamed pore is at the root of the cause
My husband and I have been together for 7 yrs and throughout that time he has only had sex with me in 3 positions, and all of them involve me being on top. Everytime we try something new he ejaculates immediately or we have to stop after a few seconds because he wants to orgasm. He is very reluctant to talk about this with me as he says that he feels rubbish at sex and he can't do it. It is really causing tension in the relationship and it has got to the point where we are no longer enjoying a sexual realtionship anymore. I have made sure that I haven't pressurised him but now I don't know what to do.
There are a number of things you can try. Firstly, if he is on top or in the position that sets the pace he can slow down when he feels he is close to ejaculating. He can even pull out and move to oral, using his hand or a toy to stimulate you while he 'recovers'. After he ejaculates, you can have sex again. This is easier in younger men but he will last significantly longer the second time. You may have to wait 15mins or so since he may be super sensitive after orgasm. There are also local numbing creams that he can ask his doctor about. He can also try wearing a condom, particularly NOT one that is 'super thin' which will reduce sensation a bit. Lastly, he can also stimulate you before sex with oral, hand or toys. Be sure to tell him what you want/like. If you have already orgasmed (once or more) or at least had a fulfilling pleasurable experience before the intercourse starts then he may feel much less pressure to perform.
Hi I'm a 17 year old boy, virgin, I think I have a tight foreskin because flaccid I can pull my foreskin back but with some discomfort and erect it is extremely difficult to pull it back without feeling tension and some soreness. What can I do? should I see my GP?
Hi James, mine was the same at your age (im not 29). I'd just try gently stretching it when having a bath or shower and over time it will become looser. Theres no need for medical intervention unless its so tight it causes you serious problems so dont worry, you're perfectly normal :) Hope this helps.
I have been in a happy relationship with my boyfriend for two years now and we have been having sex for about a year. The only problem is that I find it difficult to enjoy sex as I have an extremely sensitive clitoris, and frequently find it uncomfortable and even painful when stimulated, and as a result, I find it impossible to experience an orgasm. This problem is putting some tension on my relationship and my sexual libido has greatly decreased. Please help?
I suffer from panic attacks and extreme anxiety i have been given anti-depressants that make me feel sick. the only thing that works is diazepam which has no effect now.when i have an attack i think my heart is going to stop so i monitor my pulse constantly so i cant sleep also tension in my chest, dizziness feeling sick like im going to pass out, also situations that i think could harm me for example flying, driving long distances and on goes the list. i have asked my GP to refer me a few times but to no prevail. its getting worse and taking over my life. please can you help me with some ideas i would be very greatful. i am 26 years old
Hi, there. Im 25 and have had panic attacks for over 15 years now. although Diazepam does work it is not a long term solution as your body gets used to the dosage and it also has addictive qualities. The best things that have helped me are antidepressents that are ssri inhibitors which specifically combat anxiety although you have to stick at them as for the first 2 weeks you can feel worse before better. Also a clinical psychologist referal through your GP is very helpful and CBT can really help. Your GP should refer you. if not get a second opinion for a referal. Dont worry it will get better. hope this helps.
For the past 2 and a half years, I have been feeling constantly lightheaded and like I am going to pass out. It all started a month before my first period started, so i am starting to wander if it my hormones? I have really irregular periods, and havent had one for 3 months so far. I am underweight and feel like I am losing weight, not intending too though. Sometimes my periods are heavy and sometimes light. I also have anxiety. I always worry that I have something seriously wrong with me or I am going to die, and like you said constantly checking my heart is beating. I feel it is getting worse. But it all started the same time my hormones did. I also feel really tired and like I never want to go out or do the things I used to. Just feel it is taking over my life. Had two blood tests and nothing came up, now waiting on a MRI on my head. Also I am constantly panicking about practically everything. And I am 17. I don't think it is just anxiety, does anyone have an answer??
Hi, I have had a number of events in my life that have caused me stress, one currently on going. I can get upset very quickly and do stress alot. Sometimes even the little silly things stress me out when really there is away around it. I think one problem is that my mind is constantly actively, a new thought every few secs. Due to this I an suffering really back neck, shoulder and back pain. I am having acupuncture treatment and have been told there is too much tension that between my shoulder blades it's solid. I am on maternity so cant really afford to go often, hence by the time i go back the shoulders/neck/back are back to as they were. Is there anything you can recommend that might help? I have tried meditation but i cant get my mind to stop thinking! Thanks
I know it sounds ridiculous, but try and find a 'spiritual healer'. My mums friend is one, she works on my back and coxics whenever she has the time, and it helps sooo much, in a sense its the same as acupuncture, but it may work better for you, generally £30 an hour, i get muscles in my arms, back and legs going solid from that much tension and after an hour with her i feel light and free, if you do try it, expect to cry with releif!! good luck.
Wow I had completely forgotten i had posted here. Just had an email to say I got a reply! Thanks Katie Well 4 years on and i wouldnt say its changed much in terms of the tension in my back, neck and shoulders! I still go for acupuncture but also was referred from GP to physio - they couldnt help - wasted my time tbh! I also go for counselling which is helping but a long process / journey! I have also tried a healer but again it didnt help. I do still occassionally see them. I have suffered with two miscarriages and a death in my family over the last 12 months, dealing with reoccuring anal fissure and the other usual stresses of life! On the upside I managed to leave my last job where management were treating me like poo. I am in a better working environment now but at times the job can be stressful. Noting in comparison to previous job. I try to make small changes where possible but i dont think its enough. There isn't enough help out there for people who suffer with this. We are just told to eat health, do yoga meditation and excersise. Basically dont stress . . . if only it was that easy I won't be suprised if I die from the amount of stress i feel but hey ho got to plod along as you're pretty much stuck with it if you have it bad!
Hi, last night I remember by boyfriend asking me if I'm ok. I answered yes, confused as to why he was asking. I remember checking the time on my phone and being surprised it was only 01:50 as I thought I had been asleep for hours. (I went to sleep at 12). He told me this morning that he had tried to hug me and I pulled away and panicked and jumped out of bed and stood there for a few seconds with my head in my hands before getting back into bed as though nothing had happened. I do not remember this at all and this scares me. This has never happened before to my knowledge. I also had a dream the night before that my boyfriend was following me, trying to kill me. In real life, he is the most gentle, loving person and we are in a very good place. No arguments or tension. (A little background in case it is relevant) I have been feeling a bit down since before Christmas, but I know that he does not consider depression serious, so I haven't really shared the extent of my sadness with him. Can anyone help me explain the incident last night?
Hi Bronwen I have investigated online and as far as I know you are experiencing a dream state during rem sleep. This means you are dreaming while in a sleep state so your imagination is running wild and anything you dream fed is really happening. If you are conscious just try to relax and remember you will wake up eventually. Worst thing you can do is panic. Regards John
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